How to Get Your Ex That You Dumped Back
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So you made a bad choice.. you dumped a good person. And now, of course, you want them back. Well, all hope may not be lost! Read on for the how-to guide to get your honey back!
Steps
- If you are not already, try to become friends with them. This is your best bet of seeing how susceptible they are to getting back into a relationship with you. It is pretty obvious that if they refuse to be friends then they definitely would not want to be more! But be wary if they have a significant other -- people do not take it lightly when their other's ex tries to get cozy again.
- Talk to them about your breakup. Not the easiest conversation, but one that needs to go on. It is imperative to your future relationship with him to move on past this. If you two cannot stand to talk about things in the past, then there is no way that you can have a successful relationship in the future.
- Ask them if they could ever picture you two being together again. Once again, not the most fun talk to have, but if you ever want to be with them again, you have to bite the bullet!
- Explain to them how things are different now. Things are sure to have changed since you two called it quits, and hopefully for the better. Assure them you are no longer a cheater, you are not as needy as you once were,... whatever concerns your flaws and the breakup. But this is a good time for you to think about their flaws -- if they had horrible traits that led to your breakup, then are you sure you want to get back together with them?
- If things do not go as planned and they just want to be friends, do not worry! Many people that break up get back together. And, just as many find great friends in their exes. You just have to be willing to take that first (awkward) step towards finding out if you fall into either of those categories!
Tips
- Be careful not to hound them if they do not want to talk to you. Remember, break-ups are painful (even for guys!) and talking to you may bring back feelings that they do not want to deal with.
Warnings
- They may be rude or stuck up about you wanting to get back together with them. Never fear -- there are plenty of people out there that will want to be with you.
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