How to Flirt with a Guy

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Flirting, a skill all women and men should know. You need the advice if you see a nice looking guy in the park. So ladies, heres a guide to teach you how to flirt, and hopefully pull a man.

Steps

Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and, while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in a mini skirt and heels, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself, and you slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence. See How to Build Self Confidence.
Be playful. Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back. Have fun.
Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often. See How to Look Approachable.
Break the touch barrier. Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship more than guys can. Also another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to "compare hand sizes" then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to "break the barrier." A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt. Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you’re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous.
Compliment him. Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.
Be confident! But remember, he MAY give you signs that he's not interested.

Video

A video on how to flirt with men

Tips

If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Another quick way of flirting with your eyes is to make eye contact, quickly look away, and ever so slowly drag your eyes back to his. Most of the time it gives them a rush, and may leave them staring at you with their mouth slightly open.
When he is around his friends, only flirt with him, not other guys.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home; I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it-it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Bite your bottom lip from time to time guys love it.
When he's around his friends, barely talk to his friends, talk mostly to him. That way, he'll be left under the impression that out of all the guys there, you want HIM.

Warnings

There’s a line between sexy and slutty, if you push it too far you'll end up with a guy who likes you just for your body or...without a guy at all.
Never degrade yourself by acting unintelligent just for attention. Guys worth having want a girl who can have good, intelligent conversations.
Don't act too desperate. It will only make you look as though you're pathetic and maybe too clingy which will obviously scare him off.
If he tries to kiss you, ever so lightly flinch back. That leaves him wanting more.
Dont let him do things you don't want to.

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